Stop Making Other People Feel Better!
When a friend has a problem, we often try to comfort them or help them fix it. Sometimes that’s exactly the wrong thing to do.
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Are You Really Close To Other People?
Being close to others isn't just emotionally satisfying: it protects our physical health too.
The Agony Of Using Dating Apps
Lots of people on dating apps behave badly. Here’s why.
Ossan’s Love and Hong Kong’s Revolution
It’s very hard to be gay in a conservative society like Hong Kong. A new TV drama is starting to change things.
Judge, Jury and Executioner: The Pitfalls of Couples Counselling
When couples counsellors buy into the narrative clients use to explain their troubles, therapy doesn’t end well.
Breaking The Jealousy Cycle
Irrational or intense jealousy stems from a number of possible sources — all of which can be fixed.
Jealousy Cycles: The Self Fulfilling Prophecy
Intense jealousy is agonizing and often destroys relationships. Understanding what’s going on is the first step to fixing things.
If You Really Loved Me…
Your romantic partner may annoy you in many small ways — but don’t give up. The world of animal training can help.
Talking About Feelings: The Antidote to Mind Reading
We often think we know why our romantic partner behaves the way they do — and we’re usually wrong. That's why we need to talk about feelings
The Perils of Reading Your Partner’s Mind
Using our partner’s behavior to deduce their intentions and motivation is natural. Natural, but dangerous.
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