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Recovering From Infidelity: Shame, Guilt, Anger and the Search for the Villain
Hong Kong pop star Andy Hui’s betrayal of his wife Sammi Cheng rocked the city. How can they — and other couples who’ve been through simila
Valentine’s Day Is Fun: Making Relationships Successful Is Work
Valentine’s Day may be blissful…but there’s usually a little voice asking “Will this relationship last?” Here's how to stop that voice.
When Your Loved One WON’T Change
What do you do when you’ve tried everything to get your loved one to stop their infuriating behavior — and nothing has worked?
Want Your Loved One To Change? Stop Criticizing
If you can ask your loved one to change without it sounding like a criticism, you'll get better results.
Did You Marry A Sociopath? (Sorry, But No)
Maybe you think that your spouse is a sociopath, or borderline, or a narcissist. But maybe you should think again.
Six Steps to Improve Your Communication and Achieve Greater Intimacy
Learning how to listen to each other can improve our relationships. Here are six things to do that will help you in that quest.
Turning Fights Into Gold (Part II): Conflict and Attachment in Couples
The ability to fight well is one of the hallmarks of successful relationships.
Turning Fights Into Gold (Part I): Conflict and Attachment in Couples
Our fights with our romantic partner may appear to be about trivial things. But the question at the root of every fight is “Are you there f
Listen To Your Partner’s Problem, Or Solve It? Couples, Conflict and Emotional Support
Women often want someone to listen. Men say their partner just wants to moan, not fix things. Here's how to bridge the gap.
How Relationships Die: Conflict, Communication and Motivations
Relationships rarely go from hero to zero overnight. Rather, they die a death of a thousand cuts.
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